feat(dev): add live-reload dev server with Juice CSS inlining

- tools/server/: Node.js dev server (Express + WebSocket + fs.watch)
  Watches themes/ for .tmpl changes, rebuilds via Go preview command,
  applies Juice CSS inlining for email client compatibility, pushes
  live reload to browser via WebSocket.
- tools/cli/dev.go: 'go run . dev' subcommand — starts Node.js server
  with automatic npm install, initial preview generation, and
  Ctrl+C graceful shutdown.
- tools/tools.go: register dev command in CLI app.
- .gitignore: add node_modules exclusion.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

tools/tools.go

@@ -19,6 +19,7 @@ func main() {
 			cmds.CreateCommand(),
 			cmds.DeleteCommand(),
 			cmds.PreviewCommand(),
+			cmds.DevCommand(),
 		},
 	}